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		<title>Great advice on being a Christian parent</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#160; I recently came across an article entitled&#160; Homeschool Blindspots that highlights some of the joys and sorrows of being a Christian parent. I shared the article with several people and I was surprised by how strongly they responded to &#8230; <a href="http://www.peaceburlington.org/archives/2314">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>I recently came across an article entitled&nbsp; <a href="http://www.joshharris.com/2011/09/homeschool_blindspots.php">Homeschool Blindspots</a> that highlights some of the joys and sorrows of being a Christian parent. I shared the article with several people and I was surprised by how strongly they responded to what the author was saying. Because so many people have found this article to be helpful I decided to share it with the wider congregation. Although I can&#8217;t think of any homeschooling families in this congregation, the basic principles that the author lifts up are applicable to anyone who has children or works with young people. I would love to hear what you think about this article.</p>
<h3><a href="http://www.joshharris.com/2011/09/homeschool_blindspots.php">Please click Here to read the article</a></h3>
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		<title>Theology for Kids</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Dec 2008 14:35:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The latest issue of Themelios includes a helpful article entitled Theology for Kids: Recommending Some Recent Books for Younger Children. You can read the article by clicking HERE. The authors also provide a link to an article that looks at &#8230; <a href="http://www.peaceburlington.org/archives/1623">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.thegospelcoalition.org/publications/33-3" target="_blank">The latest issue of Themelios</a><em></em> includes a helpful article entitled <em>Theology for Kids: Recommending Some Recent Books for Younger Children</em>. You can read the article by clicking <a href="http://www.thegospelcoalition.org/publications/33-3/book-reviews/theology-for-kids" target="_blank">HERE</a>.</p>
<p>The authors also provide a link to an article that looks at some of the common ways Sunday School materials misinterpret scripture while pointing to ways that adults can become better Bible teachers.&#160; I really liked the following suggestion:</p>
<blockquote><p>5. <strong>Focus on people rather than God:</strong> The Bible is God’s revelation of himself and its message and teaching is largely based on what it tells us about God. This is particularly true of narrative (stories). While we are drawn to observe the people in the stories, we cannot forget that the stories are intended to teach us about God more than about people. <strong>If in the end, the final point is “We should/shouldn’t be like X (= some biblical character)” there is probably a problem unless the “X” is Jesus or God. Better is “we can learn through X’s story that God . .</strong> .</p>
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<p>I encourage every Sunday School teacher and parent to read this short article &#8211; you can find it&#160; <a href="http://zondervan.typepad.com/koinonia/2008/08/hermeneutics-an.html" target="_blank">HERE</a>.</p>
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		<title>How Should Parents Deal With Rebellious Adult Children?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Dec 2008 00:52:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Chris Braun the author of the recently published book Unpacking Forgiveness writes about how to deal with a wayward child: Pray and ask others to pray.&#160; Support your church if it works through church discipline with one of your children.&#160; &#8230; <a href="http://www.peaceburlington.org/archives/1528">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.chrisbrauns.com/about-2/" target="_blank">Chris Braun</a> the author of the recently published book <a href="http://www.chrisbrauns.com/unpackingforgiveness/" target="_blank">Unpacking Forgiveness</a> writes about how to deal with a wayward child:</p>
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<li>Pray and ask others to pray.&#160; </li>
<li>Support your church if it works through church discipline with one of your children.&#160; </li>
<li>Keep a relationship with your son or daughter if at all possible.&#160; </li>
<li>Do not make the sin the central issue of every conversation.&#160; </li>
<li>Don’t make provision for the sin.&#160; </li>
<li>Don’t enable the sin.&#160; </li>
<li>Grow your own marriage.&#160; </li>
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<p>You can read an expanded discussion of each point <a href="http://www.chrisbrauns.com/2008/12/04/how-should-parents-unpack-forgiveness-with-rebellious-adult-children/" target="_blank">HERE</a>.</p>
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		<title>The Religious &amp; Spiritual Lives of American Teens</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2008 02:53:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Please check out this interview of Dr. Christian Smith of the University of North Carolina. Dr. Smith and his fellow researchers with the National Study of Youth and Religion studied the religious beliefs of American teenagers, and they found that &#8230; <a href="http://www.peaceburlington.org/archives/1114">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Please check out this interview of <a href="http://www.unc.edu/~cssmith/" target="_blank">Dr. Christian Smith</a> of the University of North Carolina. Dr. Smith and his fellow researchers with the <a href="http://www.youthandreligion.org/" target="_blank">National Study of Youth and Religion</a> studied the religious beliefs of American teenagers, and they found that the faith  described by most adolescents came down to what the researchers identified as &#8220;Moralistic Therapeutic <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Deism" target="_blank">Deism</a>.&#8221; This &#8220;faith&#8221; consists of beliefs like these: 1. &#8220;A god exists who created and ordered the world and watches over human life on earth.&#8221; 2. &#8220;God wants people to be good, nice, and fair to each other, as taught in the Bible and by most world religions.&#8221; 3. &#8220;The central goal of life is to be happy and to feel good about oneself.&#8221; 4. &#8220;God does not need to be particularly involved in one&#8217;s life except when God is needed to resolve a problem.&#8221; 5. &#8220;Good people go to heaven when they die.&#8221;</p>
<p>Questions to ponder include:  How does Moralistic Therapeutic <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Deism" target="_blank">Deism</a> measure up to the faith revealed in the Bible and proclaimed by the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ? What is your reaction to the researcher&#8217;s  assertion that parents are the single biggest influence on the beliefs and behaviors of American teens?  What implication does this work have for how you interact with kids? To what extent are adults in the pews really believers in Moralistic Therapeutic <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Deism" target="_blank">Deism</a>?</p>
<p>You can listen to this 25 minute interview by clicking <a href="http://www.issuesetc.org/podcast/Show54091108H2S2.mp3" target="_blank">HERE</a>.</p>
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		<title>The Pastor Recommends: Game Day For the Glory of God: A Guide For Athletes, Fans, and Wannabes</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Sep 2008 02:06:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God. 1 Corinthians 10:31&#160; Does God actually care about how the Waterford high School football team, the Badgers, or&#160; the Packers are doing this &#8230; <a href="http://www.peaceburlington.org/archives/1058">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God. 1 Corinthians 10:31&#160; </p>
<p><a href="http://www.peaceburlington.org/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/image19.png"><img title="image" style="margin: 0px 20px 0px 0px" height="320" alt="image" src="http://www.peaceburlington.org/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/image-thumb17.png" width="217" align="left" border="0" /></a>Does God actually care about how the Waterford high School football team, the Badgers, or&#160; the Packers are doing this year? </p>
<p>God&#8217;s word tells us to do everything for God’s glory, and that includes playing and watching sports. This books helps us see how we can enjoy sports as a gift from God and as a means of maturing in faith. </p>
<p>While this book is geared almost entirely to those who play sports it can also be very helpful for those who watch them as well. We live in a culture where boys and men are particularly vulnerable to the idolatrous worship of sports&#160; and athletes, therefore I think this book is essential reading for fathers of athletes, teenaged boys, and&#160; coaches. I also think the author has a message that can be adapted and applied to anyone who strives for excellence in any field&#160; because it <a href="http://www.peaceburlington.org/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/image18.png"><img title="image" style="margin: 20px 0px 0px 60px" height="179" alt="image" src="http://www.peaceburlington.org/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/image-thumb16.png" width="252" align="right" border="0" /></a>forces us to answer the question: Who is being gloried by my efforts? Me, Myself, and I… or God?</p>
<p>Here are some of the endorsements:</p>
<p>A new, eye-opening look into sports and the gift from God that sports really are. It has helped adjust my perspective to see how God uses sports to reveal the hidden sin in my heart.”    <br />— STEVE BOSDOSH, Golf Magazine Top 100 Teacher;&#160; PGA golf instructor; contributor to Golf Magazine and&#160; Sports Illustrated</p>
<p>“As I am a father of three boys, pastor and minister to professional athletes,    <br />Altrogge’s book provided for me sound biblical principles for enjoying the     <br />&#8216;game day’ as well as seeing sports as a tool for sanctification. I wish Stephen’s     <br />book were around when Jesus saved my life while playing college football. In     <br />a neglected area of discourse Game Day and the Glory of God brings a gospel-     <br />centered voice to one of America’s biggest idols. Humorous stories coupled     <br />with serious self-reflection, this work is a valuable resource to have as well as     <br />a practical guide to many aspects of ministry.”     <br />— GARY SHAVEY, pastor at Mars Hill Church and&#160; chaplain for the Seattle Mariners     </p>
<p>“What&#160; a&#160; wonderful&#160; and&#160; refreshing&#160; take&#160; on&#160; sports&#160; that&#160; brings&#160; God&#160; to&#160; the    <br />position where he should be: Head Coach, Manager, Commissioner! Stephen     <br />makes clear God is in every part of our sporting lives. We may think the     <br />score of the game is important, but God is only concerned about the score of     <br />the game in victory over the enemy (that does not mean the Cowboys). This     <br />book is a blessing for anyone who has or needs perspective. Stephen himself     <br />is blessed, though the Lord has placed on his heart the Pittsburgh Pirates.”     <br />— DAVID STEIN, talk radio host, A Celebration of Life Through Sports     </p>
<p>“I could relate to a lot of what Stephen wrote on these pages—sports are often     <br />just a shrine to Self, and that manifests itself in an all-encompassing desire     <br />to be The Best. That said, there is still much to enjoy and value in sports,     <br />and this book will help parents, coaches, and young athletes form a biblical     <br />perspective on the games they play.”     <br />—TED KLUCK, author, ESPN.com contributor</p>
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<p>You can order the book by clicking <a href="http://www.crossway.org/product/9781433501395" target="_blank">HERE</a>.</p>
<p>You can read an interview with the author <a href="http://www.trillfitness.com/god-and-sports-an-interview-stephen-altrogge-author-game-day-for-the-glory-of-god/">HERE</a>.</p>
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<p>You can read the author&#8217;s blog by clicking <a href="http://www.theblazingcenter.com/" target="_blank">HERE</a>.</p>
<p>You can read a positive book review by clicking <a href="http://www.challies.com/archives/book-reviews/game-day-for-the-glory-of-god.php" target="_blank">HERE</a>.</p>
<p>You can download the first chapter entitled A life For the Glory of God in PDF format by clicking <a href="http://www.wtsbooks.com/pdf_files/9781433501395.pdf" target="_blank">HERE</a>.</p>
<p>C.J. Mahaney recently preached a sermon based on <a href="http://www.gnpcb.org/esv/search/?q=1+Corinthians+10%3A31">1 Corinthians 10:31</a> entitled <strong>Don’t Waste Your Sports.&#160;&#160; </strong>Click <a href="http://www.sovereigngraceministries.org/Blog/post/CJ-Mahaney-Dont-Waste-Your-Sports-Sermon.aspx">HERE</a> to listen to the sermon or download it in MP3 format (57 minutes).</p>
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		<title>Pointing our Children to God&#8217;s Grace in the Midst of Our Struggles</title>
		<link>http://www.peaceburlington.org/archives/915</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Sep 2008 17:08:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#34;It is not hypocritical to ask our children to do things we struggle with doing. It is hypocritical to pretend that we do not struggle. We should show them grace and strength from God for their struggles by modeling humble &#8230; <a href="http://www.peaceburlington.org/archives/915">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&quot;It is not hypocritical to ask our children to do things we struggle with doing. It is hypocritical to pretend that we do not struggle. We should show them grace and strength from God for their struggles by modeling humble dependence on God for our struggles.&quot;    <br />-Tedd Tripp, <a href="http://www.wtsbooks.com/product-exec/product_id/5629/nm/Instructing_a_Child_s_Heart_Paperback_" target="_blank">Instructing a Child&#8217;s Heart,</a> p. 89</p>
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		<title>Rabbi Shmuley Boteach on Six Values for Raising Outstanding Children</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Apr 2008 17:11:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ok..I&#8217;m certainly not an Oprah fan but I have occasionally enjoyed the insights of one of her &#8220;friends&#8221;, Rabbi Shmuley Boteach. The Rabbi recently offered up an excellent reflection on parenting entitled &#8220;Six Values for Raising Outstanding Children&#8221; &#8211; You &#8230; <a href="http://www.peaceburlington.org/archives/148">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok..I&#8217;m certainly not an Oprah fan but I have occasionally enjoyed the insights of one of her &#8220;friends&#8221;, Rabbi Shmuley Boteach. The Rabbi recently offered up an excellent reflection on parenting entitled &#8220;Six Values for Raising Outstanding Children&#8221; &#8211; <a href="http://www.shmuley.com/articles.php?id=610" target="_blank">You can read the entire article by clicking HERE. </a></p>
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<li>Stop asking your child what he wants to do with his life—start asking who he wants to <em>be</em>.</li>
<li>Stop speaking to your child about a career—talk instead about a calling.</li>
<li>Stop focusing on grades and start focusing on intellectual curiosity.</li>
<li>Stop speaking to your kids about happiness—start speaking instead about purpose.</li>
<li>Stop emphasizing friends—start emphasizing family.</li>
<li>Stop speaking to your kids about attention—start focusing them on love.</li>
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